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Can Menopause Make Sex Painful? 

Can Menopause Make Sex Painful? 

Our bodies may change with age, but we never lose the desire to please our partners. Sex helps couples stay connected as they conquer the challenges of adult life. That’s why it can be so disheartening to learn that sexual intercourse may be painful for you or your partner.  There are many reasons why this can happen, and a common one …

The Truth About Why Sex is Painful for Your Partner

The Truth About Why Sex is Painful for Your Partner

The female body changes with age, and it can have a dramatic effect on the way a woman experiences sex. Unfortunately, this natural process can make sexual intercourse painful for your female partner, and you might not have a clue why. Some men are so bewildered that they don’t believe anything is really wrong. How could something that was previously …

I Can’t Get an Erection, Now What?

I Can’t Get an Erection, Now What?

Whether it’s the first time or it’s been too many times, experiencing a flaccid penis can be a bit of a downer. Yep, I said it.  Experiencing erectile issues is not just confusing, frustrating, and inconvenient – it’s downright frightening. Sex is a major part of people’s lives, and the thought of losing control of your own body can be …

Consent and Sex: Why You Always Need It, Even with a Longtime Partner

Consent and Sex: Why You Always Need It, Even with a Longtime Partner

There’s a big (huge) misconception that sexual consent only applies to one-night stands and short-term relationships. People tend to think that once you officially enter a lo1ng-term relationship, consent is implied from that point on.  This couldn’t be further from the truth.  By neglecting to ask for your partner’s consent, you could be unintentionally pressuring them into being intimate with …

Can Trauma Impact Your Ability to Get an Erection?

Can Trauma Impact Your Ability to Get an Erection?

One of the most frustrating aspects of erectile dysfunction function is that it can be caused by SO many things. You could be having issues with performance because of physical factors like a health condition or the side effects of a medication. This is known as organic ED, and it can usually be treated by a medical professional.  Nonorganic ED, …

Guys This Really Does Happen…

March 14, 2016 Do you remember when you were a kid and you would lie on the grass and look up at the sky… It’s a perfect setting to think and remind yourself how big the world really is. Think about that for a sec… how a moment can affect us in an instant. How a moment can be much …

Does Quality of a Relationship Affect Sex?

February 15, 2016  One of the great things about this time of year and living in Miami is the sunshine with a cool breeze… I get to open up my window and let the sun and breeze flow right in. It’s invigorating and makes me feel alive with energy. Feeling this overflow of energy can branch out into other areas …

How Did Sex Connect With St Valentine?

February 8, 2016 Some people LOVE Valentines Day, others just go through the motions, and some avoid it all together. I personally enjoy Valentines Day. Not for going out to dinner, chocolates, or flowers (even though I am not apposed to that! FYI, I LOVE roses in purple); but for its original meaning. Have you every thought of how we …

3 Purposes of Sex

February 1, 2016 Good morning everyone! On this first day of February, I was blessed to have my favorite weather. A cloudy day with rain showers… just a perfect day to reflect and write. So as I sit on my favorite chair looking outside at the rainfall I began to think of the month of love and sex; more specifically …

The Power of Touch

How much do you touch your loved one? Do you hold hands? Do you rub your loved ones shoulders? Do you tell them where and how you like to be touched? Touch is the most profound and erotic act that can happen between two people if you are willing to take the time and put all of you focus in …