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Hold yer britches… I can hear y’all screaming! SCHEDULING SEX???!!!! That’s gross… its not spontaneous! I agree. Its not spontaneous. It’s the opposite of spontaneous, it’s scheduled. So, why would I even be talking about such a hideous and heinous act? Sometimes it’s a necessary evil in order to keep spontaneity in sex at different stages of our lives. Different …
Day in day out… day in day out… you get up at 7:30 am which is an hour later than your usual routine. You know… before the quarantine. You have been skipping your morning work out and sliding out of bed to the kitchen to press the coffee maker button to on. You stand there thinking to yourself… shower? Or …
This one is difficult; I’m not going to sugar coat it. It’s difficult for several reasons. The loss of trust, anger, resentment, and incessant question of what to do next. What to do next? Do you stay together? Do you separate? Do you divorce? If you stay together what does that say about the one who did not stray? You …
Aahhh sex… such fun and then BOOM! Nine months later there is a baby. So, I’m going to give it to you straight. Having a child can affect your sex life. It does. Some couples manage and come out of the change with minor scrapes. Others well…deep resentment, infidelity, separation, or divorce. That was a mouthful. It can be more …
How long have you been together? Six months? Two years? Heck, forty-five years? Everyday life can totally flatten the passion in our relationships. So, what is everyday life? Work, gym, kids (if you have any), extended family, social events, and the dreaded word… familiarity. Yes. Nothing is really new anymore. You know each other, have had every conversation you can, …
Well that must have been everything that you didn’t expect and more! Ah, The Miracle of Birth. It really is something. Of course, for many people seeing the head of their child crown through their lovers vagina is an experience that leaves no mark behind. However, there is another segment of the population that when they witnessed such an event …
Nothing rains more on a parade than when the balloons start to lose their air and slowly fall to the ground. Same goes for sex. When we really want to be “up” but in reality things are “down” it can not only end things before they got good but also affect us emotionally, and subsequently, our relationship. Now, don’t start …
The struggle is real… I mean it… I’m not being facetious. There can be several struggles that can be affecting your erection. So let’s go over the most common and a few ways to address it. Stress…yes stress. Regardless of age, stress can be a factor in any erectile issues you experience. I see quite a few men in their …
Not to toot my own horn but yes Sex Therapy can be the long term solution to addressing and managing symptoms of erectile dysfunction. Sex Therapy can assist and remedy those that have non-organic (medical/physical) reasons for not being able to get and maintain and erection for intercourse. It also can be relied upon in conjunction with treatment of an …
Ah, yes, porn. Let us count the ways that it has been celebrated over the years. While the modern concept of porn didn’t come about until the Victorian Era (1860s), porn has been around for millennia. Originally, it was referred to as Erotic Depictions and was considered more art than anything else. But oh, how the modernization of porn has …