LBGTQ
Dating is a beast in and of itself, and for trans folks, you know all about the added layers of complexity, including identity, safety, politics (ugh) and everything else in between. While this can all sound like just too much sometimes, dating can also bring a mix of excitement and hope. Because trans dating is not just about finding someone …
Gender. Now that’s a loaded word if there ever was one. All our lives, we’ve been checking boxes and ticking squares, but gender isn’t something that fits neatly on a form or in a dating app profile. Gender is so much more. It shows up in how we relate, how we communicate, how we experience closeness, and how safe we …
Oof, y’all, dating is already a full-contact sport on a good day. Now add in dating apps, mixed signals, identity exploration, and a political climate that feels increasingly volatile… and it’s no wonder so many queer folks feel exhausted before the first date even happens. If this sounds familiar, know that you’re not alone, and no, you are not asking …
Y’all, Pride isn’t just a month on the calendar and it definitely isn’t just parades, glitter and the occasional overly enthusiastic rainbow merch moment (though we do love those, too). For many LGBTQ+ couples, Pride is about something far bigger than being surrounded by thousands of other like-minded folks. It’s about feeling seen, safe, and fully yourself in your relationship. …
Y’all, if I had a dollar for every time someone stepped into my office and was unsure if they deserved sexual pleasure – oof, I’d have way too much money to count. Society has done a little number on all of us, from all of our many backgrounds, where we question if we truly deserve to experience sexual pleasure. (Spoiler …
Y’all, by now, we are all well-versed in the basic safety precautions of online dating. Meet in a public place. Don’t get too drunk or high. Make sure a friend knows where you’re going so you have an exit strategy. These precautions are undeniably important, but dating as a queer person comes with its own set of risks and challenges. …
Many transgender or non-binary people grow up suffering from gender dysphoria. This is a feeling of unease or discomfort that comes from your physical body not aligning with your gender identity. When you’re this uncomfortable with your body, making physical contact with others can cause physical discomfort, even from a hug. These feelings don’t necessarily just disappear even if you’ve …
You’re attracted to a transgender or non-binary person, but you are out of your depth on what to expect for your first sexual encounter. Hey, you are absolutely not alone. You’d be surprised how many people find themselves in this sort of sexual conundrum these days, especially since queer and transgender sex is not a main topic in sex-ed. The …
The world is becoming a more open and accepting place. We notice it on TV with makeup commercials showing gay or trans makeup artists. We see shows like I am Jazz open our eyes to the life of a trans girl and her family going through her journey and experience of being trans. As we journey towards more representation and …
So tell me all about it! How did y’all meet? Was it in a crowded room – and as you looked passed the crowd your eyes became fixed? Trapped by the warmth of a pair of honey-colored eyes. You stopped breathing for what seamed like… forever… before you realized that those eyes were coming… closer… to… you. I bet I …