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Infidelity can really damage you. But suspected infidelity can be harmful too. The questioning, the suspicions, the gaslighting. It can all be too much. If you think your partner is having an affair or if you think something’s just *off* — here’s what you should look out for. 5 possible signs of infidelity 1. They become emotionally distant A sudden …
Organic erectile dysfunction Organic ED is the most common form of erectile dysfunction, especially for men over the age of 40. Organic here means that the problem isn’t caused by medication or psychological reasons. Typically, organic ED is the result of what’s called arteriosclerosis, or the hardening of the arteries. When your arteries become thick and stiff, they get narrow …
What can porn overuse look like? Overusing pornography can have an effect on how people engage in their everyday lives. And it can certainly affect our relationships if we’re not mindful. Common signs of porn overuse can include: Don’t forget, these can be signs of porn *overuse*. Watching porn doesn’t automatically mean you’re going to have an impaired ability to …
Erectile dysfunction is a very common problem, affecting around 30 million people in the United States today. And there isn’t just one type of erectile dysfunction out there. Today I wanted to talk about 3 reasons why you may have trouble getting an erection, but also to let you know there are ways to help you out. Types of erectile …
What do we mean by “swinging”? At Blue Pearl we define swinging as a couple who engage in no-strings-attached sex with another couple or multiple couples. This can include a full swap of partners, soft swap or same room swinging. “Swinging” in this context refers to both the act of swapping partners with another couple, as well as the identity …
Sexual compatibility is an important part of any relationship. Sometimes you find a person who matches your sexual energy just right and sometimes you find a partner who requires a little bit of work. We can’t change our partners (or else I wouldn’t have this job). But we do have some control over our relationship dynamics. If you want your …
Hey, y’all, porn can be a lot of fun, trust me. Whether you like it soft and titillating or rough and hands on, porn is often a part of our relationships, even if we don’t immediately realize it. That’s why after Pornhub shut down access to its site in Texas in March 2024, Google searches for the term “VPN” jumped …
Low libido after having a baby is not new. In fact, it’s not even uncommon. What may be less well-known is that it impacts men just as much as it does women. Society tells us (and has told us for eons) that a man’s sex drive is far greater than a woman’s. I have some news. That is blatantly untrue. …
It takes six weeks, the doctors say, for a woman to heal enough after having a baby for her to return to her normal sex life. The problem with that ‘prescription’ is that after having a baby, nothing really returns to ‘normal.’ As any person who has given birth, whether vaginally or via c-section, will tell you – it takes a lot …
“How many emails do I need to send out tomorrow? Did I schedule that meeting that I intended to do? What should I pick up at the grocery store? I think we are low on avocados… mhmm avocados… avocado toast… guac!” Wandering minds, great for reminding us of tasks we need to do…Not so great for sex. This happens a …