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How to get your partner to play out your sexual fantasy

How to get your partner to play out your sexual fantasy

It’s normal to have fantasies Right out the gate, let’s be honest. It’s normal to have sexual fantasies. They’re not weird or bad and are certainly not anything to be ashamed of. They’re normal. And there’s nothing wrong with you for wanting to explore your fantasies. Got it?  Good 🙂 Tips for introducing sexual fantasies into your relationship If you’re …

Why you may be having trouble getting an erection in the morning

Why you may be having trouble getting an erection in the morning

What’s “morning wood”? If you’ve ever woken up in the morning with a full erection, then you’ve had what some folks call “morning wood”, also called nocturnal penile tumescence. It’s pretty common for people. In fact, some people can get up to five erections in one eight hour sleep cycle. Now, doctors aren’t entirely sure why you get erect when …

Sex After Baby: Balancing a Healthy Sex Life and Your Own Physical Space

Sex After Baby: Balancing a Healthy Sex Life and Your Own Physical Space

Hi, mom. I bet you feel like you’re at a crossroads some days—a mother, a partner, a friend, an individual. Each comes with their own rules and obligations.  But how do you balance a sex life with a partner, your new arrival and your own healing journey? That’s unique to you. There are some tips that can help guide you. …

Can Too Much Masturbation Cause ED  

Can Too Much Masturbation Cause ED  

Can too much masturbation cause erectile dysfunction? The quick and short answer is—no. The long answer is that there’s no evidence that connects frequency of masturbation to erectile dysfunction as a condition. You may be thinking about the “cooldown” period, otherwise known as the male refractory period. But this is different from ED.  This myth has been around for a …

Why You Can’t Stay Hard During Sex or Otherwise  

Why You Can’t Stay Hard During Sex or Otherwise  

What’s normal? Just because you occasionally get soft during sex doesn’t automatically mean there’s something wrong. It could be due to stress or anxiety or the sex you’re having isn’t as enjoyable for you. All those things are totally normal. Only when it becomes an ongoing and unresolved problem should you start looking for anything that’s wrong.  Symptoms of ED …

Is Your Partner Having an Affair or Is He Really Just “Too Tired”

Is Your Partner Having an Affair or Is He Really Just “Too Tired”

Infidelity can really damage you. But suspected infidelity can be harmful too.  The questioning, the suspicions, the gaslighting. It can all be too much.  If you think your partner is having an affair or if you think something’s just *off* — here’s what you should look out for. 5 possible signs of infidelity 1. They become emotionally distant A sudden …

Guys This Really Does Happen…

March 14, 2016 Do you remember when you were a kid and you would lie on the grass and look up at the sky… It’s a perfect setting to think and remind yourself how big the world really is. Think about that for a sec… how a moment can affect us in an instant. How a moment can be much …

I’m totally going to ask… Do you love your Vulva?

  February 29, 2016 Yes… I really am asking the question. It’s the last Monday of Februarious (yes, I have spelt it write… refer to my previous blog posts) and if there is one thing I would love for you to cleanse out of your system (guys I am talking to you too, in a way) is to let go …

To Trust… Is To Orgasm

February 22, 2016 One of the great things about the month of Februarious (Roman name for the month of February and the significance of the festivals held) is not the weather, or knowing that spring is just around the corner. It’s knowing that this is the time of the year for cleansing. So as I sit here in my favorite …

Does Quality of a Relationship Affect Sex?

February 15, 2016  One of the great things about this time of year and living in Miami is the sunshine with a cool breeze… I get to open up my window and let the sun and breeze flow right in. It’s invigorating and makes me feel alive with energy. Feeling this overflow of energy can branch out into other areas …