I’m totally going to ask… Do you love your Vulva?


February 29, 2016

Yes… I really am asking the question. It’s the last Monday of Februarious (yes, I have spelt it write… refer to my previous blog posts) and if there is one thing I would love for you to cleanse out of your system (guys I am talking to you too, in a way) is to let go of not loving your Vulva.

My favorite chair is really speaking to me today!

I’m reclining and relaxed watching the squires fight again over some almonds I left in my back yard (I just love squires).

So let me tell you what happened to me this AM to lead me to ask y’all this question.

I went to pick up a bite of breakfast and inline in front of me is a 30 something lady talking about her weekend with a pal on her cell phone (totally heard everything… this is Miami people talk loud). She started to chat about her date on Saturday night (I’m thinking it was a newish relationship, I could be wrong, but that doesn’t matter). During the conversation she stated how she hates it when she’s asked or told to touch herself during sex and how she thinks that it’s “gross and why do I have to do that” and so on. This went on for a while and finished with her saying “I should not have to do that… its gross! He should know what to do down there… if I have to search for it then what kind of guy are you?”

Yup! Good Morn’n Monday! I thought to myself… No No NO! Why would the most sacred part of you not be all the RAGE for YOU! UUuuuugggghhhhh…

I get it… we have been told by almost everyone that its ugly, dirty, and gross. I mean there is a whole industry out there driving down the message that our vulva and vaginas need to be made up and packaged to be socially acceptable. We have been told that by media, beauty companies, med spas (vaginal steaming anyone?), and our parents (remember their face when they had the talk about your body), and even the language that we use. Junk, nasty’s, beavers and s

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