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When You’re Not Up For It

When You’re Not Up For It

Nothing rains more on a parade than when the balloons start to lose their air and slowly fall to the ground. Same goes for sex. When we really want to be “up” but in reality things are “down” it can not only end things before they got good but also affect us emotionally, and subsequently, our relationship. Now, don’t start …

Quickest Easiest ED Remedy: Sex Therapy.

Quickest Easiest ED Remedy: Sex Therapy.

Not to toot my own horn but yes Sex Therapy can be the long term solution to addressing and managing symptoms of erectile dysfunction. Sex Therapy can assist and remedy those that have non-organic (medical/physical) reasons for not being able to get and maintain and erection for intercourse. It also can be relied upon in conjunction with treatment of an …

Is Your Porn Habit Hurting Your Sex Life?

Is Your Porn Habit Hurting Your Sex Life?

Ah, yes, porn. Let us count the ways that it has been celebrated over the years. While the modern concept of porn didn’t come about until the Victorian Era (1860s), porn has been around for millennia. Originally, it was referred to as Erotic Depictions and was considered more art than anything else. But oh, how the modernization of porn has …

What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

What Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

There are many… I mean MANY factors that can cause erectile dysfunction. A combination of physical and mental factors can be a contributors. I will just will go over a few of the common and not so common factors. So the physical. We know that blood flow is the biggest factor for healthy erections. That said, any physical medical condition …

Is E.D. a Physical or Mental Issue?

Is E.D. a Physical or Mental Issue?

So what is it? Which came first? Was it the chicken or the egg? Well to the tell you the truth… its can be one or the other or even both. Yes… E.D. can be strictly a physical issues, a mental issue, OR a combination of both. Yes, a combo…fries and a coke! So, let me break it down. Erectile …

How Do You Know If You Suffer From E.D.?

How Do You Know If You Suffer From E.D.?

Ok… how do you know? Aside from the quite obvious like just having undergone prostate surgery or similar, are facing cancer issues, or something else that your doctor would have given you a heads up that this may be an issue. We are going to focus on things that may be less obvious or don’t have a “traditional” underlying medical …

What Is E.D.?

What Is E.D.?

So let’s start out with the basic question of “What is E.D.?” Well, erectile dysfunction is simply when one is not able to get or keep and erection long enough or firm enough for penetration. That is basically it. Sweet and simple. Now let’s look a little deeper and clear up some misconceptions about E.D. The hard truth is that …

How to Talk to Your White Partner About Your Black Experiences

How to Talk to Your White Partner About Your Black Experiences

For most of the U.S., and some places internationally, many are having the conversation about The Black Experience. Wether its the 1,000,000,000,000 time (for Pete’s sake…) that they are having this convo or it’s the first time (that is truly Wonderful) it’s a conversation that helps us understand each other better. However, what if you are in a bi-racial relationship …

When Overconsumption Online Affects Your Ability to Be Present in Your Relationships

When Overconsumption Online Affects Your Ability to Be Present in Your Relationships

There is so much going on today in the news. We have the Covid-19 pandemic with its daily updates on infections, deaths, and what possible predictions we can make if any. We also have Black Lives Matter with demonstrations, spot light focus on the overuse of force by police, and the continued marginalization of the Black community. Lastly, the upcoming …